Leaving a legacy of kindness, generosity

Wendell Campbell seemed like he was 100 years old when I was a little kid in my church. He was a retired social work professor from Azusa Pacific University. He collected 1976 bi-centennial quarters. If you found one, you could bring it to Wendell. He carried a pocket full of regular quarters and he would trade you quarter for quarter, but he would also throw in a piece of candy. He was generous with the candy.

He spent most of his time shuttling and driving the older people (even older than him) to Drs. appointments and shopping, because they could not longer drive. He was generous with his time.

When I was 10 years old he hired me to mow his lawn. Which seemed like a great deal because I was mowing at home for free. He was generous with his patience for a 10 yr old lawn boy.

When I went to college he started sending regular checks of $250 and they always came at just the right time. Honestly, sometimes I didn’t have money for laundry and a check would come. I went to graduate school and the $250 checks would also come at just at the right time. He was generous with his money.

With every check he would share an article of something he had been reading he thought I might like and always included a personal note of how proud he was of me. He was generous with his praise.

His wife Vera had cancer for over 20 years. They moved to Las Vegas about the same time we moved to Sandpoint in 1997. Vera was now in a nursing home and Wendell went 3 times a day to spoon feed Vera. He wasn’t going to let anyone else have the privilege. He went 3 times a day 365 days a year for about two years, until she passed away. He was generous with his devotion and his love.

In 2003, Wendell died. I flew to Las Vegas to speak at his funeral. While I was there, his son told me he had been going through his dad’s stuff and found a ledger of the $250 checks. But they weren’t just to me, but 27 other young men who were preparing for ministry that he had invested in. Wendell Campbell was generous with his life and he was generous with Jesus.

You see Wendell had received the generous grace of God, the generous sacrifice of Jesus and he decided that his life would flow with the excess abundance of God’s generosity.

That’s how I want my life to be! So transformed by the generosity of God that it’s reflected in me, in the choices I make, in the way I spend my money, my time and my compassion. The world needs to see, not a church that is generous with our criticism, but generous with our love.

Generosity is not about money2020. We can be rich and generous, or we can be poor and generous. Generosity is about trust, and about joy, and about connection, and it comes by the grace of God, who has given so much to us. Are you leaving a legacy of generosity?

Chad Wilks is senior pastor at Sandpoint Church of the Nazarene.